When asked what trait they want to instill in their children, most parents answer “honesty.” But in truth, learning to lie is a crucial part of childhood. This week, we take a deep look at how and why we learn to lie, and what lying does to you. Our first story investigates the most common lie of the western world and how it ushers us into the world of lies. Our second story is about the irrepressible urge to tell the truth, and our third and final story is about lying as a form of love.
Producer: Natacha Ruck
Featuring: Joshua Hoyt, Victoria Hurst, Poncie Rutsch, Christy Hartman, Dana Kletter, Dr. Gail Heyman, Dr. Karl Rosengren, Anish Mitra, Ian Girard, Rebekah Morreale, and Ashley Artmann.
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Joshua Hoyt Interviews psychologists to find out when and how children learn to lie.
Episode 405: Learning to Lie - Introduction
Featuring: Austin Meyer, Dr. Gail Heyman, Dr. Karl Rosengren.
Story 1: The Santa Game
Victoria Hurst tackle the big one: Santa Claus. He’s the biggest, Jolliest lie in the western world. For his sake we’ve cleaned our rooms and smiled when our great aunts pinched our cheeks. Because of him, we believed wholeheartedly in the fairness of the world and in bearded old men from the North. But What has he really taught us?
Featuring: Victoria Hurst, Anish Mitra, Ian Girard, Rebekah Morreale, and Ashley Artmann.
Image Courtesy of Ken Grobe
Story 2: The Lying Lesson
Dana Kletter was only seven years old when she found herself in a situation where she needed to learn how to lie--and to lie well. It was a matter of survival. But like any little girl, she also felt a big pressure to tell the truth, no matter how dangerous that may be.
Featuring: Dana Kletter, Poncie Rutsch
Image Courtesy of Llyfrgell Genedlaethol Cymru / The National Library of Wales
Story 3: Lie to Me
What happens when lying takes over your home, and comes between you and the ones you love? In this story, Christy Hartman explores how hard it can be to face the truth about your family, and how learning to lie can be a gift of love.
Featuring: Christy Hartman
Image Courtesy of Christy Hartman