Mysql-user
From FarmShare
The central IT services SQL service lives at mysql-user.stanford.edu and the main page is https://itservices.stanford.edu/service/sql
On FarmShare, we already have a preconfigured stunnel, so you can just
mysql -h 127.0.0.1 -u my_database_user_name -p
From other Stanford systems, I think you want mysql-user.stanford.edu as the hostname.